With the new school year well underway, teachers are beginning to gain information regarding their student’s areas of strength and weakness. Many times teachers are hesitant to bring up concerns to parents. Also, many parents will want to take a ‘wait and see’ approach in order to help determine whether or not these areas of concern will go away on their own. Our advice to both parents and teachers is this: Do not wait and act now.
Advice for teachers regarding bringing up student concerns to parents:
- Collect anecdotal data to reveal the concern to the parents.
- Provide the parents with the strategies that have already been tried in the classroom.
- Provide the parents with specifics as to how the behaviors of interest are impacting the child’s learning or social needs.
Advice for parents regarding handling concerns brought up by teachers:
- Do not take the concern as an insult about your parenting or your child.
- Ask the teacher questions about the frequency and duration of the behaviors. When are they occurring? Read more