Potty training is a big milestone for any child. It definitely is an important milestone for parents as well! No more diapers!! However, there are some things to keep in mind prior to considering potty training as well as during potty training.
- When should you consider potty training?
- On average you would consider potty training when the child is around 2.5 years of age and above, can hold urine for 60-90 minutes, recognize the sensation of a full bladder, and show some form of awareness that they need to go to the bathroom.
- Do at a time when you can spend large amounts of time at home! Some parents find it best to do in the summer (less clothing!).
- What schedule should you use when potty training?
- You want to take your child to the bathroom every 90 minutes, if your child urinates then you wait for the next 90 minute interval, if not you reduce the time by 30 minutes.
- Consistency is extremely important to ensure success.
- While on the toilet what should we do?
- Praise your child for sitting appropriately on the toilet.
- You can do activities with them as long as they are not too engaging or involved.
- If they do urinate you want to CELEBRATE!
- You need to wait up to 15 minutes if there is still no urination, then you let them get off and bring them back after 60 minutes (this keeps decreasing by 30 minutes each time there is not urination).
- What should you do when there is an accident?
- It happens! Make sure you have your child help you clean it up, this is not meant to be punishing but more a natural consequence of having an accident. Keep a neutral tone and assist your child if needed to clean up the mess.
- If your child is having too many accidents you may need to shorten the intervals of going to the toilet, or it may be that your child is not ready to be potty trained yet. Always rule out any medical reasons as well!
- Things to remember!
- When starting potty training you want to make sure you child can sit on the toilet for up to 15 minutes with minimal challenging behaviors.
- The goal is INDEPENDECE, you want to work towards your child walking to the bathroom on their own and removing and putting on their underwear and pants independently as well as washing their hands.
- Make sure you child is in underwear throughout potty training! NO DIAPERS/PULL UPS!
- Diapers and pull-ups are okay during nap time and bed time.
- Number one thing to remember is PATIENCE, try to be consistently upbeat and encouraging to your child and deal with accidents as calmly as possible!
It is important to ensure that potty training is as positive an experience as possible for your child! Maintain your positive energy and constantly praise appropriate behavior seen throughout the potty training process! This will encourage your child to become more independent as well as want to go to the bathroom more often on their own!
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